A week ago Friday, I had to have Britomart put to sleep. So, so sad. She was 18 years old and 5 days. Long, long, happy kitty life; in fact, when I brought her to the vet two weeks earlier, the vet said, "Wow-- I haven't seen a cat that old in a long time!" I know she's no longer suffering, and I absolutely know it was the right thing to do, but I still miss my kitty. Here's a picture that captures her personality:
That's my Brit: right in the middle of everything. In the middle of painting, trying to keep cats out of the area? That just meant she needed to bring a toy with her and sit on the drop cloth to supervise. Not wanting a cat on my lap because I was wearing black dress pants, so I pulled up my knees to eliminate the lap? She just perched on my knees and meowed.
For those who don't know, here's where her name came from: I had just moved to Priest River, Idaho for my first teaching job, and I was lonely. Empty house, no phone for a few days, knew nobody. I saw a sign for free kittens and went in. There was a cage of six or seven fluffy tabby kittens, all exactly alike. One meowed and got right in my face-- I immediately wanted to take her home. I grabbed another kitten from the bunch, hoping to be able to tell them apart later. The woman who had the kittens looked at the "assertive" kitten and said, "That's the runt of the litter, and she's really dehydrated. She might not make it."
So I put them in a Xerox box on the back seat of my car and drove home. Less than two minutes later, both kittens and climbed over the seat to the front, then gotten underneath the gas pedal, meowing the whole time. My little runt led the way in every exploration, again getting in my face as well as she could while I was driving. Bold, but not too bold. Hence her name: Britomart, a character from Edmund Spenser's The Faerie Queene, who is warned to be bold but not too bold.
Brit's been a little fireball since that first day. She liked to climb the curtains and sit on the curtain rod. She climbed the clothes in my closet so that she could sleep in the sweaters on the top shelf. She climbed up on the bed so she could sleep on my head and/or neck every night. Brit's always been the smart one who could open cupboards and get the lid off the butter dish. Alice, her not-so-bright sister, served as lookout, meowing when I came near the kitchen.
Brit supervised the packing and loading of every single box during this last month's move. She ran up and down the stairs with each box I carried. The day before I had to take her to the vet, when she was too weak to really climb up on anything, she still managed to get up on the chair I was sitting on and sleep on my chest for a little while. I know I had her longer than most people get their cats, but I miss her. Not sure I'll have a cat that purrs in my ear every night while I sleep ever again. Alice misses her sister and doesn't like being an only kitty. Hopefully I get to have her around a little longer. Not ready to lose both just yet.
Love your pets every single day, even when they're naughty. I'd love to have to chase Brit off the counter one more time.